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Calm Horizons Counseling is a family-oriented and community-supportive practice built on a foundation of compassion, resilience, empathy, and service. 

Meet the Counselors

Vanesa DeGrave

Co-Owner / Counselor

My passion is to help others by giving them tools to live their best life. I believe we grow up learning from our caregivers, as well as the environment in which we live. Traumas, abuse, neglect, and natural disasters factor in to how we deal with everyday life. My philosophy is that "Every person matters; You Matter."

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Counselor

You don't need to have everything figured out to start counseling. Sometimes, just knowing that you want something to change is enough. My path to becoming a counselor was not a traditional one. Before counseling, I spent years in a very different career, which gave me valuable life experience and a perspective I bring into the counseling session. Over time, I felt drawn toward work that felt more meaningful and aligned with who I am. Making that change wasn't always easy, but it reinforced something I believe deeply: we are not limited to the paths we've always been on, and it is never too late to make a change.

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Counselor

Erin offers a judgment-free zone, where clients can feel relaxed and openly share, gain coping tools, and make positive changes. She has a variety of clinical experiences, having served children/families, adults navigating stress and burnout, life transitions, and helping others re-discover their true potential in life. Erin is passionate about cultural competence and respecting others' various backgrounds.

Mary Cabanillas

Intern

Hi, I’m Mary. I’m currently completing my internship as part of my Master’s program in Marriage and Family Therapy at Capella University, with an expected graduation date of December 2026. I’m honored to be part of the team at Calm Horizons Counseling, where I bring a relational, systems-focused perspective to the work we do.

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Intern

I believe counseling can be a place to slow down, better understand what is happening beneath the surface, and begin to make meaningful changes in the way we relate to ourselves and others. Often, the patterns we struggle with make more sense when we begin to understand the emotions and past experiences that helped shape them. I am a graduate counseling intern who enjoys working with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, trauma, shame, grief, identity concerns, spirituality, relationship concerns, and major life transitions.

Meet Our Staff

David DeGrave

Co-Owner / Office Manager

I Have dedicated my life to serving and supporting others. With over 20 years of military service and more than three decades in the Fire and Emergency Medical service, I have gained a deep understanding of resilience, teamwork, and the challenges that come with high-stress professions.

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Erin Myers

 Client Care Coordinator 

Erin Myers is a dedicated professional committed to providing compassionate, client-centered care within the community she has always called home. Born and raised in Rowan County, Erin brings a deep understanding of the people she serves, along with a genuine passion for supporting individuals and families through life’s challenges.

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Morgan Adelman

 Client Care Coordinator 

I was born in Texas and moved to North Carolina at the age of 17, where I’ve built both personal and professional roots. I bring a caring and people-centered approach to my role as a receptionist, with over eight years of experience in customer service.

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Our Commitment to Care

At Calm Horizons Counseling, we are dedicated to providing compassionate, respectful, and personalized care for every individual we serve. Our mission is to create a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore their experiences, discover their strengths, and move toward healing and growth.

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We believe in meeting each person where they are—honoring their unique story, experiences, and goals. Whether you’re navigating life transitions, coping with trauma, managing stress, or seeking greater emotional balance, we are here to walk beside you every step of the way.

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Our commitment to care is deeply shaped by our background in the military and first responder community. Through years of service, we’ve seen firsthand the courage, sacrifice, and resilience that define those who serve—and the unseen challenges that often follow. These experiences have strengthened our understanding of trauma, stress, and recovery, allowing us to bring a level of empathy, trust, and authenticity to the therapeutic process that only lived experience can provide.

 

At Calm Horizons Counseling, we carry forward the same values that guided us in uniform—integrity, duty, and compassion. We are committed to fostering meaningful connections, promoting healing, and helping individuals and families rediscover hope and balance in their lives.

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Your journey matters to us. No matter where you are starting from, we are honored to support you in finding calm, clarity, and strength on the horizon.

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In Network Insurances

  • Aetna

  • Ambetter

  • AmeriHealth Caritas

  • Blue Cross

  • Blue Shield

  • BlueCross and BlueShield

  • Carolina Complete Health

  • Cigna and Evernorth

  • Evernorth EAP

  • Medicaid

  • Meritain Health

  • Optum

  • UnitedHealthcare / Optum EAP

  • UnitedHealthcare / Optum Medicaid

  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH

  • WellCare

We Are Hiring

Looking for: Licensed Mental Health Professional

 (LCMHC(A),, LCSW(A), LMFT(A))

Qualified applicants, Please Email:

info@calmhorizonspllc.com

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